Friday, November 9, 2012

More fun and aggravation with "Kyle"

From previous posts, my thousands of daily readers from Boston to Bangkok may remember my friend "Kyle" (not his real name--gotta protect both him and me, for different reasons).  Kyle and I knew each other in high school and we were both on the debate team, but from there our lives went in very different directions.  Over the years, Kyle's political views have evolved into something that might even make Rush Limbaugh wince occasionally; he's about as far to the right as anyone I can imagine.

So, it should come as no surprise that Kyle is a little peeved about this week's election results.  And I can't blame him--from his perspective, it had to be a very deflating experience.  Therefore, to "make nice" just a bit, I wrote to him and complimented both Romney and Obama for running reasonably civil campaigns.  And I forwarded to him a Star Tribune commentary that made the same point--taking each of them to task at times, but also saying that it was anything but a gutter campaign for the two standard-bearers. 

But--surprise, surprise--Kyle would have none of that:

"Of course you want to claim Obama was 'within bounds' with his campaign. However, most observers agree that Obama started early trashing Romney personally and professionally, while the same cannot be said of Romney. Sorry, I do not agree that Obama is basically a decent guy. He is a product of the Chicago hood mentality of politics and it shows in his campaign and his campaign staff. It also shows in his administration.

"As for the next 4 years, I  see Obama doing all the socialist things he has done in his first 4 years, only more so. I see folks like myself, entrepreneurs, investors, and business folks hunkering down to survive the onslaught of big government. We are already seeing it in the first 3 days after the election, with massive numbers of layoff announcements, hour reductions, and companies going out of business. I don't think Obama will do anything about the deficit or debt, and unemployment will get worse rather than better. Regulations will continue to skyrocket, welfare and food stamps, and other such programs will continue to increase, family net worth will continue to drop, and the workforce will continue to shrink. Taxing the 'rich' will not come close to fixing the deficit, nor will slashing the military. Medicare will continue to go bankrupt, and social security will continue toward bankruptcy. Obamacare will dramatically increase in cost over the original estimates, and much of the private healthcare industry will begin to fade away. Obama will propose another stimulus so he can pay off his cronies again, and it will fail like the last one. He will also attack our 2nd amendment rights, and continue to favor our enemies over our allies on the world stage. He will do nothing about Iran and their nuclear development. He will continue to appease the Islamic world while they laugh at him, and he will set the stage for terror attacks abroad and at home. He will continue to push abortion rights and mandates on the church and others opposed to abortions, and will continue to undermine traditional marriage. He will push the global warming hoax as a route to government revenues, and further restrict the development of fossil fuels in the USA, leaving it to the private sector to actually develop private resources. Lastly, he will continue to hide his birth certificate, his school records, his passport records, his Selective Service records, and all the other records he has kept from public scrutiny.

"So you have your prediction, and I have mine. Check with me in 4 years. As for me, I will be protecting my family and my livelihood. I will do as little as possible to feed the federal government/liberal establishment beast, and will not tolerate nor do business with those who are undermining this country."

Whoa.  What to say?  I didn't want to spend an hour grappling with this hostility, but I did send Kyle this response:

One of these days, maybe, I'll figure out how someone who is so warm, gracious, and friendly in person turns into such an ogre when it comes to politics!  And maybe I will also figure out how someone can have such a black-and-white, heaven-and-hell view of the world, neatly divided into friends and enemies, good buys and bad.  And finally, maybe I'll figure out how basically every sentence in what you wrote includes some over-the-top, hyperbolic, and melodramatic language ("skyrocketing" regulations, "slashing" the military, Medicare going "bankrupt," paying off his "cronies," "favor our enemies," global warming "hoax," etc.).  And when you suggest that Obama is out to "undermine traditional marriage," you say something that is patently incorrect and quite out of touch.  In fact, I really do not know a single political figure in the U.S.--not a single one, Democrat or Republican--who is trying to "undermine traditional marriage."

As for the campaign itself, your charges are broad and unsubstantiated.  The debates, for example, were certainly spirited, but both Romney and Obama stayed out of the gutter.  And your comments about Obama seem to ignore what he said in the debates about these issues.  

You're right, of course, that taxing the rich will not come close to fixing the deficit; it's merely part of an overall program.  But it can make a difference.  And there is evidence to suggest that tax rates are not closely aligned with the overall health of the economy; the idea that a slight increase (from historic lows) in tax rates for the wealthy would wreck the economy is not borne out by any economic analysis that I've seen.

Take a cleansing breath.  And have a little faith in America.

A little voice in me says that when it comes to Kyle, we're not done with this.  But as my friends have counseled--and I have taken it to heart from time to time--this may be such a losing battle that it's not a battle worth waging.

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